HOW TO LEAD WIThout losing
your influence, RELATIONSHIPS,
and mind in just 90 minutes
When You Join the Lead Without Losing Challenge, You’ll Gain:
The Secrets to Leading Without Losing
A 30-Day Tactical Plan to Strengthen the Human Weapon System (that’s YOU)
The Leadership Scripts Field Guide
And...A Shot at a FREE Disney World Vacation
When You Join the Lead Without Losing Challenge, You’ll Gain:
The Secrets to Leading Without Losing
A 30-Day Tactical Plan to Strengthen the Human Weapon System (that’s YOU)
The Leadership Scripts Field Guide
And...A Shot at a FREE Disney World Vacation
Where: Orlando, Florida
Let’s be honest:
“Figure it out” means you’re on your own.
“Do more with less” is the polite way of saying we don’t actually care about you, SACRIFICE MORE.
“I’ve got this” is what too many of us say while everything around us is quietly falling apart.
The reality is this: you’re leading while running on empty.
To the people who matter most—your team, your family, even yourself—you’re not leading from strength. You’re leading from survival, chaos, and brokenness.
You feel alone—maybe not in the office, but definitely in the fight.
Surrounded by people, yet completely disconnected. No shared language. No real outlet. And no one who actually sees the weight you’re holding.
You’ve got responsibility without resources.
PME gave you theory. Your command gives you tasks. But who gave you the tools to lead actual people—with real problems and real lives?
You’re stuck in cycles that keep draining your influence and energy.
You’re surviving. Reacting. Keeping pace while quietly slipping behind on what matters most.
And maybe worst of all—you’ve started to believe this is just what leadership feels like.
Sacrifice. Isolation. Burnout.
All while you slowly lose yourself, your values, & your passion.
I’ve been there, and there is a better way.
Where:
Orlando, Florida
Let’s be honest:
“Figure it out” means you’re on your own.
“Do more with less” is the polite way of saying we don’t actually care about you, SACRIFICE MORE.
“I’ve got this” is what too many of us say while everything around us is quietly falling apart.
The reality is this: you’re leading while running on empty.
To the people who matter most—your team, your family, even yourself—you’re not leading from strength. You’re leading from survival, chaos, and brokenness.
You feel alone—maybe not in the office, but definitely in the fight.
Surrounded by people, yet completely disconnected. No shared language. No real outlet. And no one who actually sees the weight you’re holding.
You’ve got responsibility without resources.
PME gave you theory. Your command gives you tasks. But who gave you the tools to lead actual people—with real problems and real lives?
You’re stuck in cycles that keep draining your influence and energy.
You’re surviving. Reacting. Keeping pace while quietly slipping behind on what matters most.
And maybe worst of all—you’ve started to believe this is just what leadership feels like.
Sacrifice. Isolation. Burnout.
All while you slowly lose yourself, your values, & your passion.
I’ve been there, and there is a better way.
I regularly host off-sites with some of the military’s most successful leaders—our Command Chiefs. But most people never see what it cost them to get there.
Every time, more than half the leaders in that room are broken.
They don’t know their kids. More than 90% of what they do each day is draining, not energizing. They’re on the road more than they’re home. And many are counting the days until they can start living the life they actually want.
Take a good look at the top, because that’s the summit most military leaders are trying to climb.
And we have to ask—why?
What good is the summit if you lose yourself along the way?
We're killing ourselves for promotion, awards, and atta-boys. But what about the things you say you value most?
If you’re honest, they’ve taken a back seat.
Your family. Your health. Your faith. Your peace.
All collateral damage in a race you were told you had to win.
That ends now.
The Lead Without Losing Challenge is where everything starts to change.
It’s not another course, it’s a wake-up call—and a blueprint.
A clear, actionable way to align your life and your leadership with your actual values…
So you can stop chasing what the world rewards and start building a life you don’t have to recover from.
If anything I’ve said sounds like your life—this challenge was built for you.
I regularly host off-sites with some of the military’s most successful leaders—our Command Chiefs. But most people never see what it cost them to get there.
Every time, more than half the leaders in that room are broken.
They don’t know their kids. More than 90% of what they do each day is draining, not energizing. They’re on the road more than they’re home. And many are counting the days until they can start living the life they actually want.
Take a good look at the top, because that’s the summit most military leaders are trying to climb.
And we have to ask—why?
What good is the summit if you lose yourself along the way?
We're killing ourselves for promotion, awards, and atta-boys. But what about the things you say you value most?
If you’re honest, they’ve taken a back seat.
Your family. Your health. Your faith. Your peace.
All collateral damage in a race you were told you had to win.
That ends now.
The Lead Without Losing Challenge is where everything starts to change.
It’s not another course, it’s a wake-up call—and a blueprint.
A clear, actionable way to align your life and your leadership with your actual values…
So you can stop chasing what the world rewards and start building a life you don’t have to recover from.
If anything I’ve said sounds like your life—this challenge was built for you.
Over the last decade, I’ve helped more than 2,000 military leaders stop white-knuckling their way through success—and start leading from a place of clarity, strength, and conviction.
Not with fluff. With tools. Built for the mission. Proven at home.
I’ve trained at the Air Force Academy, the Senior NCO Academy, Camp Lejeune, and inside the halls of Congress. I led the most highly rated session in the history of the Congressional Leadership Series.
Before that? I spent four years as an ALS Commandant—zero DUIs, zero arrests—while surrounding schools with half our class size struggled. I’ve led leaders in Europe, Asia, the Middle East, Africa, and inside U.S. Special Forces teams.
But none of that matters if you’re losing the things that matter most.
At ten years in, I thought I was winning.
Married. Promotable. Leading the right way. But underneath it all I was burning out, and burning everything behind me.
I was the problem.
My values were off. My pace was off. And my family was paying the price.
That’s when everything changed.
I stopped treating my wife like she was wired like me. I began investing time—not just presence—into my kids. I let go of being outcome-driven and became relationally driven. My marriage has never been stronger. My relationship with my kids has never been deeper. And the influence I carry now, I never imagined was possible—because it's built on trust, not just results.
This isn't just working in my home. It's changing lives in homes across the military. During one course, a student approached me overwhelmed by the weight he was carrying. That day, he checked himself into inpatient mental health care. Six weeks later, he called me—not to say thanks, but to say he was still alive. We hear it over and over: this work is saving marriages, restoring families, and yes—saving lives.
Now I'm obsessed with teaching others to do the same!
Here’s what they say:
“This is the best leadership course I’ve ever attended.” — USAF General
“I have not had a better-delivered course in 10 years of Active Duty.” — Josh, USAF
“Every single Airman transitioning into a leader MUST take this.” — Taira, USAF
“Should be a requirement before pinning on.” — Sydney, USAF
“BOY was I eating my words... this virtual course was incredible.” — Lance, USAF
“This program should be in every PME. Period.” — MSgt, USAF
You don’t have to wonder if this works.
The truth is: I can teach you how to align your life so that success doesn't mean risking the loss of everything that matters to you.
Over the last decade, I’ve helped more than 2,000 military leaders stop white-knuckling their way through success—and start leading from a place of clarity, strength, and conviction.
Not with fluff. With tools. Built for the mission. Proven at home.
I’ve trained at the Air Force Academy, the Senior NCO Academy, Camp Lejeune, and inside the halls of Congress. I led the most highly rated session in the history of the Congressional Leadership Series.
Before that? I spent four years as an ALS Commandant—zero DUIs, zero arrests—while surrounding schools with half our class size struggled. I’ve led leaders in Europe, Asia, the Middle East, Africa, and inside U.S. Special Forces teams.
But none of that matters if you’re losing the things that matter most.
At ten years in, I thought I was winning.
Married. Promotable. Leading the right way. But underneath it all I was burning out, and burning everything behind me.
I was the problem.
My values were off. My pace was off. And my family was paying the price.
That’s when everything changed.
I stopped treating my wife like she was wired like me. I began investing time—not just presence—into my kids. I let go of being outcome-driven and became relationally driven. My marriage has never been stronger. My relationship with my kids has never been deeper. And the influence I carry now, I never imagined was possible—because it's built on trust, not just results.
This isn't just working in my home. It's changing lives in homes across the military. During one course, a student approached me overwhelmed by the weight he was carrying. That day, he checked himself into inpatient mental health care. Six weeks later, he called me—not to say thanks, but to say he was still alive. We hear it over and over: this work is saving marriages, restoring families, and yes—saving lives.
Now I'm obsessed with teaching others to do the same!
“This is the best leadership course I’ve ever attended.” — USAF General
“I have not had a better-delivered course in 10 years of Active Duty.” — USAF
“Every single Airman transitioning into a leader MUST take this.” — USAF
“Should be a requirement before pinning on.” — USAF
“BOY was I eating my words... this virtual course was incredible.” — USAF
“This program should be in every PME. Period.” — USAF
You don’t have to wonder if this works...
REALIGN YOUR LEADERSHIP.
“It was like a light switch flipped.”
“Finally—a way to lead without changing who I am.”
If you’re tired of chasing success and losing yourself in the process—this is your turning point.It starts here.
“It was like a light switch flipped.”
“Finally—a way to lead without changing who I am.”
If you’re tired of chasing success and losing yourself in the process—this is your turning point.It starts here.
We’re carrying the weight of mission success while quietly falling apart at home. And the system keeps rewarding our output while ignoring our humanity.
We say things like:
But the truth is—we’re bleeding out. Slowly. Silently.
“I didn’t think this course would help my marriage. But it did. More than anything else has.”
“I was one conversation away from quitting the military entirely. This pulled me back.”
“This saved my life. That’s not hyperbole.”
These stories aren’t exceptions. They’re evidence. This challenge is already changing lives, saving marriages, and realigning leaders before it’s too late.You don’t have to break before you get better. Join the challenge. Reclaim what matters.
Just turn to our
students to see this
is a real problem...
— MSgt USAF
— TSgt USAF
— SSgt USAF
— MSgt USAF
— TSgt USAF
— USAF
We’re carrying the weight of mission success while quietly falling apart at home. And the system keeps rewarding our output while ignoring our humanity.
We say things like:
But the truth is—we’re bleeding out. Slowly. Silently.
“I didn’t think this course would help my marriage. But it did. More than anything else has.”
“I was one conversation away from quitting the military entirely. This pulled me back.”
“This saved my life. That’s not hyperbole.”
These stories aren’t exceptions. They’re evidence. This challenge is already changing lives, saving marriages, and realigning leaders before it’s too late.You don’t have to break before you get better. Join the challenge. Reclaim what matters.
Just turn to our students to see this is a real problem...
— MSgt
— TSgt
— SSgt
— MSgt
— TSgt
Designed to expose the gap between what you say you value and how you actually live and lead.
Built to help you stop bleeding out while you serve.
We’re not throwing content at you. We’re giving you a clear, tactical, one-degree course correction with the power to realign your entire leadership rhythm.
Because when your values are in alignment, everything else sharpens:
And oh yeah...We’re also giving away tickets to Disney for four, and a Spartan Shield forged to remind you: you never have to lead alone again.
No fluff. No hype. Just tools that work, and a challenge that could shift the trajectory of everything.
($100 Value)
When the stakes are high and the words don’t come easy—this guide steps in.
You’ll get plug-and-play prompts for one-on-ones, team huddles, and hard conversations that actually move the needle.
No more walking away thinking,
“I should’ve said…”
You’ll walk into every conversation clear, confident, and prepared to lead with conviction—without crushing connection.
You’ll get the full 30-day challenge workbook—the same one used by leaders who’ve gone from reactive to realigned in just a few minutes a day. It’s a tactical rhythm for strengthening the human weapon system: you.
This isn’t motivation. It’s momentum.
You’ll finish with deeper clarity, sharper decision-making, and a leadership rhythm that actually supports your life—not one that drains it.
($1,700 Value)
(Travel not included.)
Why? Because Disney represents more than rides and fireworks.
It’s where my family has laughed, reconnected, and created some of our most meaningful memories. It’s where I began dreaming bigger, leading from peace—not pressure—and rebuilding the life I knew I was supposed to live.
This isn’t just about a prize. It’s about a reset.
A chance to step back into the role you were built for—as a leader, a parent, a spouse, and a human who’s finally living aligned.
I can’t give that to you.
But I can give you the space to fight for it.
And maybe… some tickets to go celebrate.
And if the dates line up? I’ll buy you and your family Mickey Bars and ride whatever ride you choose—because this journey deserves a finish line worth remembering.
($100 Value)
When the stakes are high and the words don’t come easy—this guide steps in.
You’ll get plug-and-play prompts for one-on-ones, team huddles, and hard conversations that actually move the needle.
No more walking away thinking,
“I should’ve said…”
You’ll walk into every conversation clear, confident, and prepared to lead with conviction—without crushing connection.
You’ll get the full 30-day challenge workbook—the same one used by leaders who’ve gone from reactive to realigned in just a few minutes a day. It’s a tactical rhythm for strengthening the human weapon system: you.
This isn’t motivation. It’s momentum.
You’ll finish with deeper clarity, sharper decision-making, and a leadership rhythm that actually supports your life—not one that drains it.
($1,700 Value)
(Travel not included.)
Why? Because Disney represents more than rides and fireworks.
It’s where my family has laughed, reconnected, and created some of our most meaningful memories. It’s where I began dreaming bigger, leading from peace—not pressure—and rebuilding the life I knew I was supposed to live.
This isn’t just about a prize. It’s about a reset.
A chance to step back into the role you were built for—as a leader, a parent, a spouse, and a human who’s finally living aligned.
I can’t give that to you.
But I can give you the space to fight for it.
And maybe… some tickets to go celebrate.
And if the dates line up? I’ll buy you and your family Mickey Bars and ride whatever ride you choose—because this journey deserves a finish line worth remembering.
Challenge Ticket $1,000 Value
The Leadership Scripts Field Guide $97 Value
Plug-and-play scripts for one-on-ones, team huddles, and high-stakes conversations.
Optimize- $97 Value
A 30-Day Op-Plan to Strengthen the Human Weapon System
Prize Admission: $Priceless
The Chance to Win a Free Disney World Vacation + Spartan 300 Shield
Challenge Ticket $2,000 Value
The Leadership Scripts Field Guide $197 Value
Plug-and-play scripts for one-on-ones, team huddles, and high-stakes conversations.
Optimize- $397 Value
A 30-Day Op-Plan to Strengthen the Human Weapon System
Prize Admission: $Priceless
The Chance to Win a Free Disney World Vacation + Spartan 300 Shield
This challenge isn’t built for the masses. It’s one-night only, May 4th, and it's intentionally limited to 500 leaders only
Because when you scale too wide, you lose impact. And I’m not here to go viral—I’m here to go deep. This is a high-touch , one-night-only experience where you and I get to actually spend time together. Where your questions get answered. Where your effort is met with mine.
May 4th isn’t just another date on the calendar.
It’s the single most important workshop I’ve ever conducted.
You’ve worked too hard for too long to settle for another shallow, surface-level webinar. You deserve a space where your investment isn’t wasted—where it actually matters. And this challenge is built to deliver exactly that.
This challenge isn’t built for the masses. It’s one-night only, May 4th, and it's intentionally limited to
500 leaders only
Because when you scale too wide, you lose impact. And I’m not here to go viral—I’m here to go deep. This is a high-touch , one-night-only experience where you and I get to actually spend time together. Where your questions get answered. Where your effort is met with mine.
May 4th isn’t just another date on the calendar.
It’s the single most important workshop I’ve ever conducted.
You’ve worked too hard for too long to settle for another shallow, surface-level webinar. You deserve a space where your investment isn’t wasted—where it actually matters. And this challenge is built to deliver exactly that.
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Yes! During the event, one lucky attendee will win 1-day Disney World tickets for themselves and up to 4 family members (that’s 5 total tickets). Note: Transportation and lodging are not included. You must be present live during the event to win—so don’t be late!
What Day Is The Event?
Saturday, May 4th ⏰ 7:00 PM Eastern / 4:00 PM Pacific ⏳ Runs about 90 minutes.
How Long Is the Challenge?
About 90 minutes!
Nope. It’s 100% FREE. No catch, no gimmicks. Only a limit of 500 available seats. Grab your's before they're gone.
Just show up with a notebook, a clear mind, and the willingness to do the inner work.
Just click the blue button above!
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